Not everyone is lucky enough to be able to marry the people they already love. Luck works at times which causes you to go your separate path, in other cases, there may be lot of love but lack of compatibility leads to breakup. Whatever the reason for your heartbreak, if you are going to tie the knot with someone else, you should do your best to leave behind the memories of your ex. With these tips, you can get over your ex’s memories just before your wedding.
Remember the reasons why you broke up
Whether your ex was an abusive partner or they didn’t have the same future goals as you, try to remember all the reasons why you broke up with this relationship. If you are doing an arranged marriage of your own free will, then there is no reason why you should ruin your future with the memories you have spent with your ex. Instead remembering the fights and tears will help you move on.
call an old friend
It’s not that you can’t forget your ex, but it just so happens that you feel lonely. So, make sure you don’t contact your ex. Instead, plan to hang out with an old friend and have them help you work through your ex’s memories. A good friend can help you make the right choice.
get therapy if needed
At times, you may fear that your future spouse may not be like your ex. Perhaps this is the reason why you are bringing back painful memories of them just before your wedding. If you are afraid of repeating toxic patterns, simply enlist the help of a licensed professional who can analyze the deep-seated issues in your past that are hindrances to your future. Solving these feelings will give you the best chance of a happy future with your spouse.