Everyone chooses different ways to get married. Some do love marriages in which they get married after making love, some go on dates before tying the knot and choose one according to their choice. People set up meetings to choose a partner with the help of matchmakers, family or relatives and decide together whether he is right for them or not. But sometimes this meeting is not what you thought and you think later on what could have changed. In such a situation, you have to pay attention to what is not said or done in the meeting so that the meeting ends before time. Know what not to say in these meetings.
household chores are necessary for women
Everyone gives priority to the family, but work and personal life also play an important role in people’s lives. More importantly, the expectations of both the partners should be equal. It is not right to think that only girl should do household chores. So don’t raise this point. Even tell that you are ready for their career.
need baby soon
In this arranged marriage meeting, many people say that a member of their family is ill, that’s why they want children soon so that the elderly members can see another generation. However, you have to keep in mind that children should not be born for someone else but for yourself. You should also ask your partner when they want children.
family likes gold more than diamonds
It is like demanding dowry that you are stating any likes or dislikes. You should never be told what a girl brings to you or your family. Many times it is said that the family likes gold ornaments. It is like asking for dowry. Such a demand before marriage may mean that there is even more pressure to gift them things after marriage. Remember that demanding dowry is still illegal in India and it is a crime.