New Delhi. Taking too long in anything can spoil that thing. Be it relationship or food. For example, if any food item is cooked for more time, then its taste can get spoiled. Similarly, there are relationships which need to be named at the right time, otherwise they break apart. One such problem is going through our reader Sandeep (name changed) whose girlfriend is pressurizing him to get married but he doesn’t want to get married right now. So let’s know what his story is after all.
don’t want to marry now
Sandeep says that he is 32 years old and he is currently a bachelor. Sandeep told- I am in a relationship with a girl for the last 4 years and our relationship is going very well but suddenly my girlfriend wants us to get married and get into a relationship but I am not ready for this yet. . It is not that I do not love him or am not financially strong but I myself am not ready for marriage yet. I haven’t thought anything about getting married. I explained the same thing to my girlfriend that I want a few more years, but she says that now she will marry according to the choice of her parents. I don’t understand what to do.
question yourself first
In this case, experts say that first of all ask yourself why you want time, then put your feelings in front of your girlfriend. This is because after 4 years of serial relationship any girl should make it a relationship and your girlfriend’s decision clearly shows that she is ready for marriage. If you ask for more time this time, they will feel that you are just using them. Second, if you have any solid reason for not getting married, then tell them and explain.