New Delhi. The initial days of marriage are like beautiful moments for every couple, but with time, if relationships are not taken care of, then it becomes difficult to live together for life. Our reader Ruchika (name changed) is going through the same problem. Earlier their married life was going well but now they live like roommates instead of husband and wife. So let’s first know the problem of Ruchika and also the way to solve it.
no feeling for husband
Talking about her personal life, Ruchika said that earlier there was a lot of love in the relationship and now I don’t remember when was the last time we sat together and talked romantically. He further told that there has been so much distance between us that we have not made physical relations since many years. We also have a son but I don’t feel anything for my husband. Sometimes I feel like ending this relationship but I become silent after seeing the face of my son. I don’t know whether to take this relationship forward or not.
don’t take the relationship lightly
On this matter, experts say that it is very important to make efforts from both the partners to maintain the marriage. If someone tries to save only one relationship, everything will be fine for a few days, but sooner or later the train will derail. First of all, both of you have to give priority to your relationship. You have started taking each other for granted. First of all start spending time with each other. You had time to yourself, think about your relationship. Second, it is seen many times that after becoming parents, the husband and wife turn their full focus towards their child and in this rush, the relationship between the two is left behind. Never make such a mistake, by this you will become a good parent, but you will not be able to become husband and wife. To save your relationship, give time to your personal relationship along with family.