New Delhi. Illegal relationships spoil every relationship. They act as termites in any relationship, if not treated in time, the relationship becomes hollow. After the relationship gets spoiled, it becomes very difficult to trust the partner. One such problem is going through our reader Mohan (name changed) whose wife is cheating on him with some other man. Mohan knows about this but he is not able to forgive this mistake of his wife from his heart and is getting upset inside. So let’s first know the complete question of Mohan.
My wife is the mother of 2 children
Mohan says that he is married and his age is 50 years. He also has two children. Mohan told that my wife was behaving strangely for a few months. Came home early one day and found my wife in the arms of another man. Both were very close. At that time both my children were out. The shocking thing was that that person is 15 years younger than my wife. On strictly asking, the wife told that all this has been going on for the last 2 months and she has spent many nights with him in the hotel. Now I don’t want to be with her but I am bearing everything for my kids. What shall I do.
talk to wife
Experts on this matter say that it is difficult for anyone to go through this situation. You have been cheated in a relationship and it is impossible to trust someone after being cheated. First of all try to forgive your wife from the bottom of your heart. If you can do that then fine, otherwise separation is the option. Because if you are not able to forgive them from the heart then you will keep thinking about the betrayal all the time. Which will have an effect on them as well as on the children. Secondly talk to your wife why he took such a step. Who knows, you are not able to give time to your wife… and they have found this way to get love and attention. Once you know what is in your wife’s heart and only then take a decision. Whatever decision you take, but keep in mind that it will definitely affect the lives of your children.