New Delhi. Marriage is a bond that not only binds two human beings but also two families. In true sense, after marriage, every person has two parents and whether it is a boy or a girl, the responsibility of taking care of them falls equally on both of them. But some people are not able to adopt other’s relatives, in such a situation problems start to arise in married life. One of our readers, Akshat, has shared one such problem and he is looking for a solution to it. Know what is Akshat’s problem and what advice has our expert given to him? Akshat is married. It has been only a short time for their marriage and from now on, discord has started in their married life. According to him, the wife does not want to live with Akshat’s parents. She is adamant on the demand for a separate house. But Akshat cannot leave his parents alone in their old age. Not only this, in the absence of parents, she fights a lot with Akshat about this matter. At the same time, she behaves like an ideal daughter-in-law in front of the parents. Akshat is very upset with this double character of his wife. He wants that in some way he can explain to his wife that he cannot leave his parents alone.
Experts say about this that western cultures are influencing Indian tradition very fast. Nuclear family has increased a lot in the country. Modern parents have also understood and adopted the need of separate children. This keeps peace and love in the house. But in cases like Akshat’s problem, it is very difficult to understand how much turmoil and unrest there is in the mind of the boy. In such a situation, the boy should act wisely and talk to both the wife and the parents. The reason for the insistence on living separately from the wife should be asked. For example, if this problem is arising due to household chores, then a helper can be kept in the house or the boy himself can help him in the household chores. Apart from this, talk to the parents also about this topic.
Is it that their responsibilities are so much on the wife that she is not getting time for herself or the parents insult your wife by playing the role of harsh mother-in-law. Find a middle ground through dialogue.