As time passes, our relationship also matures. We understand each other better and keep accepting good and bad habits. Relationships also change amidst the ups and downs of life and we start becoming each other’s support system. But this does not happen in everyone’s relationship. With the passage of time, frustration starts coming between them, they feel tired together, they do not have time to talk and even if there is time, there is no topic for conversation. The relationship loses its freshness and even after living together, they start feeling lonely.
Follow the first year rules- As we start spending time together, we tend to become careless in relationships. We easily lose our patience, express resentment, even hurt each other’s feelings easily. Avoid doing this and follow the rules that were followed in the first year of your dating, in your current life as well.
Ask about their needs- As we spend time together, we get to know each other’s needs. Because of this, expectations from each other also start increasing. We stop asking about each other’s needs and the partner starts questioning whether you care about him or not. So remember to ask about your partner’s needs as much as possible. It is important to maintain freshness in your relationship.
Become an expert on your partner- You start knowing everything about your partner and try to understand them as much as you can. Be it their emotional needs, physical needs or anything else. You also know what things they like, what things excite them and what things trigger their moods. Try to become an expert in understanding your partner as much as possible.
Ask these questions before going to sleep- After a long day of running around, do not forget to ask your partner how their day was. This way, there will be a regular connection between you. Not only this, if there is no special conversation between you even after this question, then you can ask what they liked today, which was a difficult task today. Trust me, this will show that you care about them.
Make a weekly ritual – Take out time to spend time together one day a week and make plans in advance. You can go on dinner dates, movie dates, etc. and spend some exciting time together. This will help maintain privacy and bond between you.
