Have you understood others? How in the world you treat others, this is a major factor in determining your quality of life. Here you have to deal with different types of people. If you have to work with only one colleague in a small square room, it is easy to face problems, but when it comes to handling hundreds of employees, you will have many strange experiences. Of course, you can be the main person.
But if you want all the employees to understand you and work according to your wish, then you will be very disappointed in it. This situation has not arisen because others cannot understand you, but because you cannot understand others.
Only why with employees, you will have to be disappointed with many close relatives. How in the world you treat others, this is a major factor in determining your quality of life. Here you have to deal with different types of people, you have to understand everyone and behave according to them.
Once a woman took care of her husband, who had been in a coma for months, took care with great dedication and dedication. One day when the husband regained consciousness, he said to his wife- “You have supported me in every difficult time. When my job was gone, you tied me up by saying hope. Then I started my own business, when I was deficient in it, then you worked hard day and night and earned money and run a family.
When our house was seized in a trial, you still came to live with me in a small house without dare. Today you live with me on the bed of this hospital. You know, what do you think in my mind seeing you? “He was speaking in a slow voice.
The wife had tears of happiness in her eyes; She overwhelmed her husband’s hand. The husband said- “I think you are always with me, that’s why mountains of troubles are breaking on me one after the other. Those who misunderstand each other, what relationship can the relationship with them?
How to carry a relationship? How are we playing them? No matter how close friends are, we have drawn a limit between him and ourselves. If any of us crosses him, then we pick up the flag of protest. Bitterness can be overcome only when one of us bends generously. Understand one thing, people around us are very good, there is no shortage in them. Maybe once or twice they behave like crazy. It is not right to give it too much.
Whether it is a relative, a colleague, friend or a neighbor … Any person born in the world will have some qualities and some qualities you will not like. If you have maturity to accept both types of qualities equally, then all problems will be over. On the contrary, where you will keep pampering and scolding others when needed and will keep scolding when needed, there will always be an atmosphere of discord and discord.
Change yourself, not others. Why are you waiting for them to change? You have to change. Be prepared to treat everyone the same as you want to be done with you. Adopt a strategy that is effective in dealing with the next person.
Once Shankaran Pillai fell into an open drain. Despite many efforts, they could not get out. They shouted loudly, ‘Save me, fire … fire!’ People around were scared. He called the fire brigade. He took out Shankaran Pillai.
He asked, “You fire … fire! Where is the fire?” Shankaran Pillai asked, “If I shouted for the drain, you don’t come!” That is why I shouted … fire … fire! ”Think what will happen if everything in the house changes and becomes like you?
Then whom will you scold, whom will you be stupid, and whom will you praise by calling them smarter? You cannot live even half an hour. If this is the condition of your own house, then how foolish is it to try to make the whole world like yourself? Life seems interesting because of its diversity.
Do not wait for everyone to mold themselves according to your wish, but also accept the other person in the same way. By doing this, even if others do not change according to your wish, life will become according to your wish.
