Social media has not only become a medium of dialogue in today’s era, but many relationships also start from here. These relationships starting with friendship often reach love, but when this love rests on lies and deceit, the results can be shocking. One such shocking case has come to light from Baghpat district of Uttar Pradesh, where the love affair on social media for four years ended with deception and tears.
What is the whole matter?
A young woman from Meerut befriended a young man from Ratol (Baghpat) on Instagram four years ago. The conversation began, messages, video calls and loving words brought both closer. Over time, this friendship turned into a deep love affair. The woman began to feel that she was talking to the prince of her dreams. She did not want to stay a single moment without her. He also talked about meeting several times, but every time the young man used to avoid some excuse.
Decision to meet after four years
After a four -year long conversation and relationship, the woman suddenly decided to meet the lover. The young man once shared his house address in the message. The woman planned to reach there without telling anyone. When she reached the address of the lover, the ground slipped from under her feet. The man, whom she considered to be a good and single young man till now, turned out to be married and was also the father of 8 children.
The girl broke down after knowing the reality
After knowing the reality of the lover, the woman was shocked. Tears were not being named from his eyes. For years, the person he blindly trusted, he turned out to be his biggest cheater. He was not only already married, but also hid his true identity and used to implicate girls by creating a new face on social media. The girl was shocked by a huge shock.
Police post arrived crying
Eventually, the girl reached Ratou Chowki in Baghpat crying and told her full love story to in-charge Sanjay Singh. The woman said that she looted her heart, trust and future on the person who just cheated. The outpost in -charge pacified the girl and explained that moving forward is the right way. He asked the woman to keep distance from such a person and think towards improving her life further.
Demand for not legal action
Surprisingly, the woman did not take any legal action against the person. He only demanded mental support from the police. The police also assured him that if there is any problem in future, he should feel free to contact.
Growing fake relationships on social media
This incident once again warns that vigilance is very important while creating a relationship on social media. Sometimes the person in front gives wrong information about his identity, marital status or age. The youth should fully examine the truth of that person before proceeding in any relationship, if you want to meet, do it in public place, and do not forget to give information to the family.
Cyber experts opinion
Cyber security experts say that in such cases many times people get stuck in emotions. It is very easy to hide identity on Instagram, Facebook or WhatsApp. According to experts, “If there is a long conversation with the person found on social media, then know his background. Make a video call, also check his social media profile, photo tags and his followers. If he is avoiding meeting, it should be careful.”
Responsibility of Women’s Commission and Society
To save women from such deception, the Women’s Commission, police and cyber cells should jointly investigate such cases seriously. Along with this, the society should also not embarrass the suffering women, but support so that they can start life again.
Conclusion: Cheating in the name of love, messing with emotions
This incident of Baghpat is a lesson for thousands of women who form a relationship on social media. Every smiling face, sweet things and loving words are not truth. Until the whole reality of the front is revealed, it is necessary to take work from the mind, not from the heart. Otherwise one day the reality can be something where the dream palace is built on the foundation of the deceit – and only tears and regrets remain while collapsing.
