The definitions and social boundaries of relationships are constantly in discussion in Ambedkaranagar, Uttar Pradesh. Once married to grandmother’s grandson, now a woman left her husband and three children and married her lover. While on one hand it is being called social disintegration, on the other hand it is also considered to be a decision for the freedom of the woman.
The reason for the decision of the husband became helpless of the husband?
Jitendra Kumar of Ghunnapur village in Baskhari region is physically disabled. The mother of her three sons, Pooja, has now started a new life with the prince of the village, not with her. Rajkumar is also already married and is the father of three children.
The closeness between Pooja and Rajkumar began about a year ago. Earlier, the woman had gone with her lover, but the police searched and sent it back to the husband. Now when she went back to the lover again and got married in the temple, the police said – “The woman is going on her own, we cannot stop.”
Love in the realm of law – but whose pain?
Legally, if a woman is an adult and wants to live with someone on her own free will, she cannot be stopped. But the question is that when three children are involved in this relationship and the husband is in a helpless situation, is it just a matter of freedom or to turn away from social responsibilities?
Husband Jitendra Kumar said –
“The wife took advantage of my compulsion. I cheated on me. I will not forgive till death.”
At the same time, on the complaint, the reverse husband was challaned in disturbance. Videos of this marriage have also gone viral on social media.
Changing matters of relationships – Society confusion
This case is not only a husband-wife or love affair, but a reflection of a society that is swinging between tradition and modernity. While some people are describing the decision of the woman as courageous and the victory of freedom, on the other hand, the question is also arising whether it is right to turn away from the responsibility of family and children?
Administration silent, society shocked
No clear statement was received due to the station in -charge being on leave, but the local administration is currently inactive in the matter.
