A case has come to light from Muzaffarpur in Bihar which proves the saying of love and family conflict “love is blind”. Here a graduate girl went against the family’s will and married her 8th failed boyfriend. The case has given rise to controversies and when the family gave a complaint to the police, a viral video came out in which the girl clearly said that she had married on her own free will and she has not been kidnapped.
Marriage against family
The woman said in her video message that her family members were deciding the marriage somewhere else against her will. She chose a groom for her, which she did not like. On the contrary, she loved her boyfriend, so she married her despite the family’s displeasure. The girl completely dismissed her father’s allegations that the young man had kidnapped her.
Truth of viral video
The video shows a boy putting vermilion in the demand of the girl. During this time no one can see around, but it is clear in the video that when vermilion was being dumped, someone recorded it. After marriage, the girl came forward and clarified that this marriage was done in a legal manner in court and there was no pressure from anyone.
The girl said, “I have married on my own free will. I did not kidnap.”
Leaving home on her own free will
In the video, the woman told that she had completely left home on her wish. He told that the family wanted to get her married elsewhere against her will, so she was forced to take this step. In this case, the girl clearly said that she has not been kidnapped.
Police-administration request for help
The woman has also demanded security from the police and administration in her video message. She said that she is an adult and married on her own free will. She also said that whatever case has been done on her husband and her family is wrong.
Apart from this, the girl told that her family members are threatening to kill her and saying that wherever she appears, she will harm her. In such a situation, she is demanding security and help from the police-administration so that she and her husband can be safe.
Case reflection of social conflict
This case is a major struggle between the traditional thinking of the family and the independent desire of the youth. While the family set a marriage for the girl on the basis of her beliefs and decisions, the girl preferred her choice and love. This incident has once again raised the question whether youth can take decisions on their own or the wishes of the family dominate them.
Self -sufficiency of girls growing in society
This incident is also an indication that today’s girls have started taking decisions of their lives, even if they have to face family opposition. Such incidents are increasing in the society where girls are marrying their choice and are going against the family and taking steps for their prosperity.