In today’s changing times, people keep wandering around in search of true love. But they do not find such a lover anywhere. The person he considers everything he does not live up to their trust and cheats on them in the middle. They start wondering why they do not get true love. Many people have different opinions behind this. But the great philosopher and thinker Osho has blamed psychology and human nature for this. In this article, we will know why those who love true love do not get love.
What is the definition of love according to Osho?
According to Osho, love is not based on any transaction or selfishness. This is a condition where there is no place for any kind of deal. He saw love as a meditation, in which freedom and understanding is paramount.
True love does not make bondage
Osho says, “When love becomes a bond, it does not remain love. He becomes ownership.” A true lover never considers his partner his ‘right’. In today’s time, most love affairs are based on expectations and control. Therefore, a true lover does not get a place in the traditional love system of society.
Society does not like truth
Osho says, “True love is always revolutionary.” When a true lover loves without any fear, appearance and greed, society does not accept him. Because society needs lovers who are bound by its rules, not lovers who want freedom and purity of soul in love.
True love has a bond with each other
Osho has said that the person you do not need to love, it is a pleasure to be with him, no need. “When love becomes just ‘presence’ from ‘needs’, he does not stand in physical relationships. That is why true lovers often stay away from relationships. Because they do not make love emotional dependence.
Friendship with loneliness
Osho believes that true love is not afraid of loneliness, but accepts it. But most people are afraid to be alone and therefore get into relationships. True lovers can be happy alone, so they do not depend on anyone and here they get out of traditional ‘love affairs’.
What have Osho suggested on true love?
Osho repeatedly talks about meditation. They say, “If you want to love, learn to love yourself first. Meditation will take you to a situation where love is born on its own without any condition and expectation.
