In the society, women are often seen thinking about two ends – on the one hand she is considered to be the form of a goddess, on the other hand, she is expected to “perfection”. But the truth is that like every human, women also have some weaknesses, about which they themselves remain unknown. These weaknesses are not always negative, but sometimes they make them an emotional person. If men understand these emotional and mental aspects and adopt these weaknesses, then the relationship may be depth and strengthened.
1. Excessive thinking tendency
Many women struggle with the habit of repeatedly thinking of anything. She puts small things from the heart and keeps considering the same topic for hours or days. This overthinking increases their anxiety and stress, but she herself does not understand that it is becoming a cause of mental exhaustion. If men understand this trend, they can motivate them to communicate openly, which can improve the relationship.
2. ‘Everything to do everything’
Many women want to do everything alone to prove themselves self -reliant and responsible. They feel that asking for help is a sign of weakness. This mentality makes them tired and makes them weak within. If the man is able to feel that the help done to them will not hurt the woman’s self -esteem, then they will be able to open themselves for that help.
3. Hide pain by saying ‘everything is fine’
The tendency to hide emotions in women can also be considered a weakness. She often hides pain or stress and says smiling, “I am fine.” If men are able to read the truth behind this false smile, then there will be true understanding in the relationship. Dialogue and faith can become the biggest weapon in such cases.
4. Self-interest and comparison habit
The expectations of social media and society have given rise to a sense of self-respect and comparison among women. They keep comparing themselves to others – be it beauty, career or relationship. It can take the form of a mental stress. If the spouse constantly appreciates them and emotional support, it can weaken the feeling of self-doubt.
5. Keep yourself behind others
Many women sacrifice so much for family and society that they leave their dreams and desires behind. This can be a major weakness of them, as they start forgetting their existence. If men also give importance to their priorities and give them time and space for themselves, then women can become emotionally more powerful.
6. To hesitate to express love
Not every woman is comfortable to express her feelings in words. Many times she expresses love only through work and responsibilities. Men should understand their behavior, not only in words, but also recognize the love hidden in work.
7. Change yourself for the happiness of others
Women start changing themselves to keep their family and relationship happy. They change their likes, dislikes, habits, even thinking, which makes them lost within. If the spouse recognizes this ‘Small Sacrifice’ in time and accepts them with their reality, then the relationship can be much deeper and honest.
What can men do?
Learn to listen – just don’t listen, understand.
Encourage – appreciate women’s abilities and self -confidence.
Give emotional support – not just economic, emotional support is also necessary.
Appreciate-Praise small works as well.
Give space – let them live with their choice and time.