Childhood is the foundation of any human life. Just as the building stands on a strong foundation, similarly the qualities and rites filled in childhood determine the direction of life. The most important of these qualities is confidence. Self -confidence is the power that gives the child the strength to overcome fear, failure and social pressure. But the question is, where does this confidence start? The answer is-from home and school. In today’s era, the role of both parents and teachers has become important in the mental and emotional development of children. There is not a guideline or rigorous rule to fill confidence in children, but there are some necessary measures that can be adopted and a positive thinking and strong self -confidence can be developed within them.
1. Listen, understand and appreciate
Many times children only want to be heard. When they share their small things, the reaction of parents or teacher matters a lot. If you listen to the child’s words seriously and understand his feelings, it increases his self -esteem. Also, when he also corrects a small task, then appreciate him. This appreciation fills with him that he is worthy of worthy and can do better if he keeps trying.
2. Let children take decisions
Instead of telling the children a chance to take a decision instead of telling ‘what to do’ all the time. For example, which dress they want to wear, or to participate in which game. This creates trust in them. These small decisions prepare them for great responsibilities and make them self-sufficient.
3. Take failure in a comfortable way
It is not necessary to win every time. Many times failures break children, especially when parents or teachers get angry with him. They need to explain that failure is also part of the path of success. If the child loses in a competition or the number comes low in the exam, instead of scolding him, encourage him that he will do better next time.
4. Protect children from comparison
“Look how good Sharma ji’s son is” – such comparison makes children frustrated. Each child comes with different abilities and interests. Parents and teachers should allow every child to move forward at their own pace. Comparison creates inferiority complex in children, which is the biggest enemy of confidence.
5. Teach children new things
Learning new skills, such as swimming, painting, music, or sports – can increase children’s confidence manifold. When they learn a new skill and progress in it, they realize that they too can do something new and good. With this, they are not afraid of the challenges faced in life, but faces them.
6. Create a positive environment
The atmosphere of home and school directly affects the mental development of children. Where there will be an atmosphere of love, cooperation, respect and understanding, the child will openly say his words, share his fear and try for his goal. A positive and inspiring atmosphere lays the foundation of self -confidence and confidence in children.
7. Give children small responsibilities
When you entrust small responsibilities to children at home or class – such as decorating books, watering plants, bringing some goods – then they feel necessary. These responsibilities make them self -reliant and self -sufficient, which promotes their confidence.
