When you are having an arranged marriage, you probably want your spouse’s family to appreciate you and embrace you completely. Still, for most parents, accepting that they are giving their baby to you is a difficult thing. So, whatever you do to help them with this will be of help to them. For this you have to tell that you are the right one for their child. You have to impress your in-laws so that they make you a part of the family. Here are some tips to help you impress your in-laws in arranged marriage.
do some great cooking
You may have to work harder this time. Add some cooking to it as well. With the one you cook best, make a dish that your in-laws will love. If you’re a woman, this is a great way to let them know that you know the way to your man’s heart, and for men it’s a great way to let your in-laws know that you don’t want to play a gender role. He will happily cook food for his daughter by focusing on her.
be well prepared
There is no need to always dress up for a party. But if you are going to their or a relative’s house before marriage or shopping with your new in-laws, then prepare a little wisely. Try that your clothes are matching and nice. Wear some stylish clothes apart from your normal clothes. Wear pants and a shirt instead of trackpants or shorts. Women can also wear smart casuals or cute ethnic kurtis.
take mother-in-law and mother along
Mother is the same for all. You should also believe that your partner’s mother is as important as your mother. In such a situation, take both of them together and treat both of them equally. Plan a spa session for the ladies and send them along for a manicure.
No matter what you do, you must remember not to criticize your spouse in front of your in-laws (at least initially), because then they may find it difficult to like you.