The basis of a strong and happy household life is not only love, but also has mutual understanding, respect and sensitivity shown in small things. The husband-wife relationship is like a two-wheeled car-if a single wheel becomes unbalanced, then the pace of the whole relationship starts to waver. It is often seen in the society that men become so busy with their duties and responsibilities that they forget that even a wife has the same emotional needs, expectations and sensitivity. These small ignorance or mistakes become so big with time that even a laughing house reaches the verge of disintegration. In this article we are talking about 5 common and serious mistakes made by men towards wives, which can prove to be quite quite quite to destroy any household-if it is not improved in time.
1. Emotional neglect
Women often give the most importance to emotional engagement in the relationship. She wants her partner to not only listen to her words, but also understand their expressions, support them and also boost their morale when needed. But many times men ignore this side. Answers like ‘I am busy with work’, ‘tired hoon’, ‘not of talk’ can break wives from within. When the emotional distance increases, it can bring a rift not just in dialogue, but in the whole relationship.
2. Comparison or to examp the wives of others
Many men unknowingly compare their wives to someone else – like “Watch how sensible Sharma ji’s wife is”, or “You should behave like him too”. This habit can hurt the self -esteem of wives. Every person has its own specialty and comparison gives rise to inferiority complex, frustration and resentment in the relationship.
3. To get rid of responsibilities
Today’s women are also responsible for equal responsibility as well as outside the house. But many men still consider the family as ‘only women’s work’. Food, children’s care, house cleaning responsibilities only exhaustion to the wife – both physically and mentally. Playing one -sided responsibility can break any woman from within. The only partner and sensible husband is the need of today’s household life.
4. Lack of dialogue or neglect
The lack of dialogue in the relationship gradually turns into distance. If the husband does not give importance to the words of the wife, considers her words as ‘useless things’, then she stops sharing her heart. This condition gradually takes the form of mental loneliness and eats the happiness of the household. The dialogue is not just by words, but also by behavior and affinity – and ignoring it can become the biggest lapse of any relationship.
5. Lack of honor and use of harsh words
Many times men sit using harsh accents, shouts or derogatory language to get their point. Whether it is angry or under stress, hurting the wife’s self -esteem is the first step towards ruining any relationship. A wife does not just want love, she also wants respect and dignity from her spouse. Where there is no respect, the relationship is left only.
