But in this partnership, cracks begin when small things, gestures and feelings of each other are ignored. Often men complain that their wives complain a lot, get angry at small things – but the truth is that many times those wives have said a lot in their gestures, which men cannot understand.
Why do quarrels grow at home?
Many psychological research suggests that one of the major reasons for domestic discord is that husband and wife do not understand each other’s emotional language. And when it comes to women, they prefer to express their feelings with gestures, gestures, behavior and silence rather than directly to say.
Now the question is, what are those signs that if men understand in time, then there can be sweetness in the relationship?
1. When she repeatedly says – “Nothing happened”
If you are relaxed after hearing these words, then be a little careful. When women say “nothing happened”, there is often a lot behind it. This is an emotional sign that she is angry but does not want to speak openly. In such a situation, it is important that you sit with him, talk and make him realize that you care about it.
2. suddenly shut up
If your wife suddenly becomes silent, not interested in talking or the answer to your questions is only limited to “Hmm”, “Ok” – then it is a sign of anger or emotional distance. This sign is telling you – “Understand me, come with me.”
3. Show irritability in household chores
If your wife now shows irritability or fatigue that she used to enjoy happily while doing that work, then it is an indication that she is tired-not physically, but emotionally. He needs support and praise. Only words like “you do very well” can give him a lot of peace.
4. Compare in everything
If he repeatedly starts comparing you to other wives, couples or friends-as “Look how he took his wife on a trip” or “she surprised the wedding anniversary”-it means that she wants a little romance, wants a little initiative from you.
5. Repeated concern about children
This is an indication that she is feeling lonely, and wants you to be equally interested in raising children. When men are limited to earning only, women feel that the entire responsibility of the house and children is only their.
Why is it important to understand these signs in time?
Dialogue in the relationship is not only with words, but also with eyes, gesture, silence and small behavior. If these signs are not understood in time, then the relationship gradually starts to weaken emotionally.
Emotional distance increases mental stress
Nowadays many cases related to mental health are increasing because people do not understand the feelings of their spouse. This lack of understanding can gradually turn into depression, irritability and distance.
What should men do?
Learn to listen: Don’t just listen, listen carefully.
Appreciation: words like “thanks”, “you do very good” have great effects without any reason.
Be sensitive: Feel their words, work and fatigue.
Communicate daily: Talk to each other for 10 minutes daily without mobile.
conclusion
Wife’s gestures are not just emotional drama, but there are signs of maintaining the moisture of the relationship. If men start understanding these signs, then not only the quarrels will be less but the relationship will also be deep. Marriage is a journey in which if you learn to recognize and respect each other’s feelings, then this journey can always be beautiful.
