Love is a beautiful feeling, in which strong relationships are formed on the foundation of faith, understanding and mutual respect. But many times some small mistakes also become the cause of big quarrels and when it comes to boys, often their careless attitude or ego can make a good relationship hollow. It is not that these mistakes are deliberately made, but their unseen can take the relationship to the turn from which it becomes difficult to return. If they are not improved in time, then the relationship does not take long to break.
1. Do not understand and ignore emotions
Most important in relationships is to understand each other’s feelings. But many times boys ignore the emotional needs of their girlfriends or wife. When a girl wants to talk, wants to share her problem or just wants to support you, then if you postpone her or say “don’t talk”, then she starts breaking inside. Such insensitivity creates emotional distance.
2. Ego and Controlling Nature
Some men have a tendency to ‘dominate’ in a relationship. They feel that only their point should be obeyed and their likes and dislikes decide the direction of the relationship. But love is a relationship of equality. When you try to suppress your partner’s freedom, thoughts or decisions, she starts feeling herself in a ‘tied’ position. This type of controlling behavior gradually eliminates trust.
3. Communication Gap
Many boys shy away from talking or talking. Whether it is a matter of mind or solving a quarrel – if there is no dialogue, misunderstandings will flourish. The communication gap can gradually hollow out any strong relationship. If you do not listen to your partner or do not keep your point properly, then it can cause distance.
4. Lies or hide things
Hiding lies or things can shake the foundation of any relationship. Many times boys tell small lies like going out with a friend, talking to a girl or hiding a plan-thinking that it will not make any difference. But when these things come out, there is a rift in the trust. Honesty is the most important in the relationship, no matter how difficult it is.
5. Do not appreciate the partner
Many boys consider their partner’s hard work, thoughts and contribution to normal. Neither praise him, nor appreciate his efforts. When a girl feels that her importance is not being understood, she starts to retreat emotionally. There comes a time when she thinks that it is not important in this relationship.
6. Priority to outsiders
If you give more importance to your friends, gaming, social media or work than your partner, then it can also create bitterness in the relationship. When your partner complains of not giving you time or constantly ignoring you, it is easy to call it ‘positive’ or ‘over demanding’. But in reality it is a sign of an emotional emptiness, which is not right to ignore.
7. Compare
Comparing someone in relationships is the most dangerous mistake. If you compare your partner to another girl-whether it is a friend, X or a film character-then you hurt her self-respect. This comparison can create insecurity, anger and negative thinking in her mind.
8. Not apologizing and not obeying mistakes
Even if you have made a mistake, it is very important to accept it and apologize to the heart. But many boys do not apologize due to their ego, fall into the opposite debate. When you do not accept your mistake, your partner feels that his feelings are of no importance.
Change is important if the relationship is to be saved
Small things have a big effect in love. If you want to save your relationship, then it is necessary to change these habits. Being a good boyfriend or husband does not just mean giving a gift or rotating out, but it stands on the foundation of emotional connection, understanding and respect. If you want your partner to always support you, then give it time, give it time, understand his feelings and change your behavior. Remember, when a girl loves she gives everything – but when she breaks, she goes quietly away… and then it may be difficult to return.