True love-A word that once resonated with the feelings of reality, now in modern society, a distant dream is gradually becoming a distant dream. The fast pace of technology, life -filled life and increasing instability in relationships have transformed love to ‘feeling’, not just ‘feeling’. Today’s youth class is in the rapidly changing world, while professional has been in the race for success, he has forgotten to give priority to relationships.
The direction of love changed in the digital age
While the Internet and social media worked to connect people on the one hand, on the other hand this “connection” went on to become artificial. Today love is limited to just chat, video calls and emojis. Instead of expressing the feelings, filtered photos and short videos have been taken. Now, where the first letters used to come out in the letters, now the timing of “Seen” and “Last Seen” determines the depth of relationships.
Uncertainty is taking place of trust
The biggest problem of modern love is the lack of trust. Relationships have been confused by instability and abundance of options. Earlier, where a relationship was resolved to live for a lifetime, today the mindset like “leave it there” has done home. The glut of dating apps has further promoted this trend.
Love has become ‘project’
Nowadays love is also being seen as a “task” – which is taken out and played. People are so entangled in worrying about career, personal development, and social image that even the deep sense of love has been considered as an object of “managing”. Relationships have now become a demand for time and energy, not the call of the soul.
Argument is replacing emotions
Sometimes true love was unconditionally – where there was familiarity, understanding and sacrifice. But nowadays the relationship has become ‘locked’. People now love thinking what the person can give – emotion, security or social status? When expectations are not met, love also ends. This is the reason why true, selfless love is now becoming limited to only stories and films.
Intolerance is increasing in relationships
Today people are starting to judge early instead of understanding each other. Due to the decline in tolerance, small differences also cause breakups. Earlier, where people used to try to improve each other and save the relationship, today there are easy routes like ‘Block’, ‘Unsfriend’ and ‘Goodbye’.
Loneliness is increasing ‘false love’
True love is found once, but due to loneliness and social pressure in modern times, people often get tied up in relationships only for “company”. In such relationships, emotional engagement is less and social pretense is more. When the foundation of relationships is not real, they do not even stand.
Changing values and social thinking
Once marriage was considered a lifetime bond, but now it is also seen as an alternative. In modern thinking, words like “space”, “freedom”, and “self-live” are replacing love. While these things are necessary for personal development, excessive self-centeredness is becoming a hindrance in true love.
What is the solution?
True love is still possible, but it is necessary for self -consciousness and patience. To bring stability in love, it is necessary that people learn to give priority to relationships again. Get out of the digital world and communicate real. Understand each other, give time and adopt unconditional. Also, it is very important to give children and youth to the right understanding of relationships. Emotional education in schools and families has now become mandatory, so that future generations believe not only in digital relationships, but in true human connection.
True love has become like a dream in today’s time because we have forgotten its original spirit. Until we come out of autism and learn to accept unconditional relations, the imagination of true love will also remain a dream. But if we want, we can realize this dream again – only with a little understanding, patience and dedication.
