Married life does not only mean living together, but also to understand and respect each other’s feelings, thoughts and feelings. Often men become so busy with their duties that they are unable to feel the feelings in their wife’s heart. Women do not speak many things in their mind- sometimes to save the relationship, sometimes for upbringing, sometimes because they feel, “Maybe the thing will not understand.” Let’s know the 5th of the wives, the deepest secrets they often hide- but if the husband understands them, then not only can the relationship be strong, but married life also becomes happy and successful.
1. She wants you to understand it without saying
There is a wish in the heart of every wife that her husband should understand her gesture, her eyes and her feelings without saying. Whether it is tired of all day, or worry about something- she is not able to say everything in words. She wants her spouse to understand by the gesture of her face that today she needs someone with a cup of tea. This is not a “examination”, but a deep relationship, where there is a dialogue without saying. If the husband starts understanding this emotional level, then a new kind of closeness arises.
2. She changes her priorities for you and children
Many times wives distance away from their career, hobbies, even friends, so that they can cherish the family. They do not reveal these things, because they have a habit of considering this sacrifice as their duty. But in any corner of the heart, they definitely expect that someday you will recognize their small and big sacrifice. A simple “thank you” or “nothing is possible without you” can bring a smile to their face, which eradicates the fatigue of the whole day.
3. They are also hungry for praise
It is often seen that in the early days of marriage, the husband showers praise, but with the passage of time, this habit ends. But the truth is that every woman feels good when her spouse praises her beauty, cooking skills or her dedication to children. She wants this, but never says directly. If one day suddenly you say – “Today you look very beautiful” – Believe me, its day will be made.
4. They also feel lonely, but they do not express it
When the husband is busy with office, business or friends, many times wives feel neglected. Especially for women who live at home, this loneliness is even deeper. But she is unable to express this loneliness – sometimes seeing your stress, sometimes thinking that “I am weakening.” So sometimes just ask this – “How are you? How was your day today?” – It matters a lot to them. This shows that you are with them, even if the words are less.
5. She includes herself in your dreams
Every wife wants her husband to move forward, prosper – and she quietly lays the foundation of that success. When you work till late night, she keeps your food warm without any complaint. When you return home tired, she hides her troubles for your smile. She leaves her dreams behind and becomes a part of your dreams. And she does not say this because she wants her name not be included in your success, but only her shadow.
Conclusions: Understanding is the foundation of a true relationship
Wives are strong – from outside and also from within. But there is a soft heart behind that strength, which only wants to understand and familiarity. If the husband understands these untold mysteries, then love, respect and balance can be maintained in every house. Running home is not just an economic responsibility, it is an emotional partnership, in which both need to listen, understand and feel each other. The relationship between husband and wife is not of two bodies, but the union of two souls – and the language of the soul only understands the heart.