Love, a word that brings soft feelings in the mind as soon as he hears it. This can be the most beautiful feeling of human life, but when it goes beyond balance and understanding, this love can destroy the life of a human being. From history to modern society, stories of love not only inspires, but also show that everything can be harmful to everything – even if it is love.
Love: The key to construction or destruction?
Love is a feeling that makes humans strong from within. When you are in true love, you have confidence, sympathy and enthusiasm for life. The person tries to be better for his partner – this is the creative aspect of love. But if this love turns into jealousy, selfishness, hesitation or excessively, then it becomes a mental burden. This is the reason that if the nature of love is not balanced and sensible, then it can prove to be destructive.
How is love your life?
1. Prem gives emotional stability
When a person gets true love, he becomes mentally more calm, balanced and positive. A partner who understands you, inspires, accepts your fear and weakness without judging – he enhances your personality.
2. Self-acceptance increases with love
When a person adopts you unconditionally, you also learn to accept yourself. This self-acceptance gives rise to confidence and the person is able to take a better decision in his career, relationships and social life.
3. Enthusiasts and purpose get
Love can bring a direction and purpose in life. Whether it is to create a family, to face the difficulties of life together or to fulfill dreams – love becomes an inspiration.
4. Stress reduces
Researches have proved that stress hormone levels are low in people living in love. A person feels more calm and balanced by getting emotional cooperation.
But how can this love spoil life?
1. Unbalanced love
When love is unilateral, when one partner becomes highly dependent on the other or lacks trust in the relationship – then love becomes unbalanced. This imbalance can break the person mentally.
2. Emotional exploitation
Sometimes emotional control and mental abuse begin in the name of love. “If you love me, do this”. Gradually, things like a person’s freedom gradually eliminates.
3. Breaking of healthy boundaries
In love, a person often sinks so much that he forgets his own limits, self -respect and priorities. Such a love weakens the identity and self -esteem of a person.
4. Depression after breakup
If love ends, he can take a person to take serious steps like depression, anxiety and suicide. It is not easy to overcome emotional breakdown.
Films and stories: two faces of love
In Hindi cinema, we get to see both faces of love. In ‘Jab We Met’, Prem gave him a new direction of life by connecting two broken hearts, while in ‘Devdas’, failure in love pushed the main character towards self -destruction. This message is hidden behind these stories – love is a strength, but it is necessary to take it in the right direction.
What is the solution?
Maintain dialogue: It is necessary to talk and talk openly in any relationship.
Decide healthy boundaries: Love does not mean losing itself, but also cares about himself as well as a partner.
Identify healthy relationships: If there is constant pain, neglect or fear in the relationship, then it is not a healthy love.
Do not hesitate to seek help from a psychiatrist: If love is taking away your mental peace, seek professional help.
Love is a power – it can lead you to the heights of the sky, and if you go in the wrong direction, you can also fall on the ground. It is completely up to you how you live it – with understanding, respect and balance or with extremes, expectations and control. Therefore, love – but not blindly, not with heart and mind.