In today’s era, where the definition of relationships is changing rapidly, one of the biggest illusion is that people are beginning to understand lust and love as one. The spirit that has called social media, web series and rapidly changing lifestyle is often reduced to physical attraction. In such a situation, the question arises – are we really loved, or are we tied in the bond of lust?
Love – Soul’s association with soul
Love is a feeling that is born without any selfishness. It has neither the body nor any “deal”. It is a deep, immortal and selfless relationship between two souls. When you are able to accept someone’s good, in every form, weeping and smiling in happiness-then he is in love. There is love in love, there is a sense of security and the biggest thing is freedom. Love is not dominating anyone, but keeps him free. He enriches a person’s life, not just a few moments of satisfaction.
Lust – Body hunger, away from soul
On the other hand, lust is only connected to the body. The soul has no place in this. The foundation of lust rests on attraction – form, voice, dress, body. It is very fast, but it is as soon as possible, the relationship of lust remains as long as the front fulfills your wishes. As soon as that attraction fades, or your expectations are not fulfilled – that relationship breaks down. It has neither emotions nor sensitivity. This is why such relationships often turn into bitterness and regrets.
Where is the confusion?
Often the youth class or the first time people going close to someone, do not recognize lust and love differently. To feel good with someone, feel restless for him, feel excitement in his closest – people consider them love. While this can also be just attraction. Both love and lust are human emotions, and it is natural to have them. But it is very important to understand the difference between them so that you can take the right decision – especially when you are going to make a life -long relationship.
How to recognize whether it is love or lust?
In love you connect with his nature, thinking, struggle and dreams.
In lust, you only connect with his body, form or close.
Love calms you from inside.
Lust gives you temporary stimulation.
The distance in love also does not break the relationship.
The distance in lust makes the relationship meaningless.
