Imagine, you said something to someone and the matter deteriorated. Then you think, “I wish I kept quiet.” This happens to all of us. Sometimes remaining silent is not just an option, but is the greatest proof of our understanding and intelligence. This is a weapon that can win you without fighting. Today we will talk about 5 such occasions where it is most beneficial to remain silent.
When another person is angry
When someone is very angry, his brain is unable to decide right and wrong. In such a situation, if you also answer, then it will be like adding ghee to the fire. By keeping silent, you give that person a chance to calm your anger. Your silence makes him think. This not only avoids a quarrel, but also saves your relationship from deteriorating.
When you are very emotional
When we are very happy, depressed or frustrated, often our words come out of the mind, but from the heart. In such a situation, many times we say such things, which we regret later. Therefore, when emotions dominate, one should remain silent for a while. Let your feelings calm down, then speak thoughtfully.
When you don’t know the whole thing
Speaking without complete knowledge can spoil anything. Many times we immediately react to the heard and heard matter, and later we find out that the matter was something else. Therefore, it is necessary to gather complete information before giving your opinion on any issue. It is prudent to remain silent until you know the whole thing.
When your words are useless
Many times we are arguing with such people who do not bother with their words. They feel that they are only right. In such a situation, no matter how much you try, your words will be useless. It is better to keep quiet than wasting your energy in such waste debris.
Forced them to think
Sometimes our silence is more effective than thousands of words. When someone constantly tries to prove you wrong or down, the best answer is to be silent. Your silence makes him realize that his words have no effect on you and he is forced to think on his words.