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Every parent wants mutual love to remain between their children. However, sometimes children become enemies of each other. Apart from many reasons behind this, some mistakes of the parents are also involved.
Anmol Chauhan Wed, 2 Oct 2024 10:18 AM share
In homes where there are more than one child, most of the parents complain that their children always fight among themselves. It is normal to have minor fights between brothers and sisters in childhood. But many times, even after growing up, discord persists between brothers and sisters, due to which the relationship gradually starts turning sour. Whether you believe it or not, the parents are also at fault somewhere in this. Although the parents do not want to do this, many times such mistakes are made knowingly or unknowingly in their upbringing due to which discord occurs in the relationship between siblings. So let’s talk about them today.
love one and blame the other
It is often seen that when a small child comes to the house, all the love of the elder child is also showered on him. On the other hand, the elder child has to be scolded even for small mistakes and understanding is always expected from him. Many times this same behavior continues even after the children grow up, which starts affecting their relationships in some way or the other. Whereas parents should avoid doing this. They should give equal love to both the children and in case of any mistake, both should be scolded or explained equally.
compare with each other
Every person is different. Everyone’s intelligence, capacity, nature, everything is different. Brothers and sisters are also different. But many times parents, through their own behaviour, create a sense of competition among their children, which is not right. One child should never be compared to another child. By doing this, the child becomes insecure with his own siblings, which later on has a negative impact on their relationship.
Don’t hold just one person responsible for mistakes
Many times it is seen that when any household item gets broken or any damage occurs because of children, then often the elder children or younger children of the house are held responsible. While this is not correct. If both are at fault then both should be punished equally. By giving punishment to one person and ignoring the mistake of the other, their mutual relationship starts getting sour. In such a situation, when children are not able to say anything to their parents, they start fighting among themselves.
Understand the child’s feelings
If there is a feeling of jealousy or envy in the minds of children, then neither ignore it nor overreact to it by scolding and reprimanding the children. Rather, try to change their feelings with love. Also try to understand why such feelings are coming in the minds of children. Is this a side effect of any of your behaviour? Try to change that habit of yours. Without discriminating between children, give them equal love and respect. By doing this, the relationship between children will also deepen.
