Parents often find it better to shout and scream in front of people to make their child understand when he makes a mistake rather than beating him. But do the parents who do this know that by doing this your child is saved from beating but this habit of yours gradually starts bringing a big change in his personality. This kind of strict behavior of parents can cause symptoms like lying, getting angry, irritable, not listening, taking wrong steps to get attention in children. Keeping children in discipline is the first responsibility of every parent, but while fulfilling this responsibility, they should also take special care of the mental health of the child. Let us know what are the disadvantages of shouting at the child in front of people.
Increasing depression-
According to a report in ‘The Journal of Child Development’, yelling at children has the same effect as beating them, but yelling at children in front of people leads to symptoms like anxiety, stress and depression in them.
Lack of Confidence-
Child psychologists believe that shouting at a child weakens his self-confidence. If a child is scolded a lot in childhood, then that child is not able to talk properly even among his friends due to lack of self-confidence.
Warning system-
According to psychologist Bernard Golden, the warning system of a person’s body gets activated when he shouts or hears a loud sound. After which the person immediately comes into a state of fight or freeze. This directly affects those parts of the brain that increase cortisol and adrenalin hormones. Due to which the body becomes active to fight the danger.
Angry nature can become-
Children have a very soft mind, due to which any unpleasant thing can hurt them easily. In such a situation, scolding a child while standing in a public place can make him angry by nature. Such parents spoil the mental health of their children.
The bond of relationships starts weakening
Over time, parents try to strengthen their relationship with their child. But if you scold, beat or shout at your child in front of others, they feel bad and do not feel safe with their parents. Such children are unable to trust their own parents. Due to which the bond of their relationship starts weakening.