These days, a word ‘Delulu’ is becoming very viral on social media. This is a brief form of ‘delusional’. It may find you a joke, but it is also a large extent in terms of relationships. When a new relationship begins, we often get lost in it. We only see good things and we cook the khichdi of the mind that this is a perfect relationship.
This is the time when we start living in ‘delulu’. It is okay to dream a little, but if you get far away from reality, it can harm you. Actually, when your hope breaks, the pain is unbearable. Today’s article is also on this subject. We are going to tell you about some signs that you can identify that you do not love. Let’s know-
First of all understand the meaning of ‘delulu’
Delulu means to live in your imagination and dreams more than reality. In the case of relationships, it means thinking and assuming such things that do not actually happen. For example, taking a small gesture very seriously or start making future plans only when the relationship is not sure.
Do more
Have anyone ever sent only an emoji to your Instagram story and you felt that he was interested in you? This is the first sign of ‘Delulu’. That is, to give more importance to a small, easy gesture and ignore the reality.
Understand the signs of danger
If your partner repeatedly ignores you, makes excuses not to meet you and does not care at all, then you often ignore the fact that perhaps he will be busy. But this type of repeated ignorance is also a sign of delulu.
Consider unilateral attempt as love
If you always keep messaging, call and keep making plans and keep saying to yourself that it is too much, then it is also a sign of delulu. A healthy relationship lasts only when both sides try equal.
Future thinking
Ever without you “what is our relationship?” Wali starts thinking far ahead without talking. This is Delulu. That is, your mind moves so much while thinking about the future that you ignore today’s reality.
Understanding attraction
When you consider small things or say that even the normal conversation is considered as evidence of your strong relationship and assumes that the person in front is thinking the same, while the reality is something else. So you should also recognize these signs.
Lose more dreams
Dreaming about your crush is common, but if you start spending time in the fictional world more than talking, it is a sign of depression. This means that you are living only in your imaginary world while avoiding the truth.
Know its disadvantages as well
In this situation, you are hurt quickly and cannot tolerate the pain of heartbreaking. Instead of focusing on your life, you focus more in the fictional world. This waste your time and energy. When you are in confusion, you cannot see the truth of the relationship. You ignore your mistakes and the danger that comes up. When your expectations are broken, your confidence is also shaken. You start cursing yourself. This also increases your loneliness. You get away from people. Many times people take wrong decisions due to Delulu thinking.
