Every person crosses the biggest challenges due to confidence in his life. But have you ever felt that you are not as confident as before? Does it sometimes seem that you are losing trust in yourself? The reason for this is not just life problems or failures, but some people around you are also responsible for it. Such people suck your thinking, self -confidence and mental energy in such a way that you do not know that you are becoming weak from within.
1. Always negative thinking people
The attitude of these people is to find faults and troubles in everything. If you want to make a new beginning, these people will already say that “you will not be”, “a lot of risk”, “will fail”. Their words slowly affect your confidence, and you start doubting your ability.
2. Compare people
If there are people around you who keep comparing you to others all the time – like “Dekho Sharma ji’s son reached”, or “I was earning so much in your age” – then these things hurt your self -realization. Repeated comparison causes the person to understand himself as inferior, and this becomes the biggest threat to confidence.
3. ‘Friends’ joking
Some people lower you in laughter, make fun of your dress, language, thinking or success. Even if they avoid it as “jokes”, but it continues to happen, then the feeling starts to do this in you that “Maybe I am not really so good.” It is a slow poison that eliminates self -esteem.
4. Always prove themselves right
These are those who like to prove themselves right and others in everything. If your opinion, decision or suggestion is repeatedly denied, then you too slowly start to fear to speak. This fear breaks the first step of confidence.
5. Emotional blackmail
Such people take advantage of your emotional engagement. “If you love me, do this”, “You are not appreciative of my feelings”, you start feeling guilty by listening to dialogues. This guilty is licking confidence like a termites.
How to identify and avoid?
Pay attention to your mood and self -confidence: This is a big sign if you feel tired, disappointed or discouraged after meeting a particular person.
Learn to say ‘no’: It is important to set limits for your mental peace. Meritive distance when needed.
Choose positive association: Spend time with people who inspire you, appreciate you and encourage you to become better.
