In today’s time, people do everything that they are not inside to influence someone. Especially boys do everything new so that the front person gets attracted towards them quickly. Many times his planning also becomes successful. But that relationship does not last long. The great philosopher Osho had said in this regard that trying to impress someone in itself reflects insecurity and artificiality. He believed that when you try to “influence” someone, you hide your true form and wear fake masks. Many long -lasting relationships are on the foundation of lies.
Be natural, attraction will be born automatically
Osho says, “If you live in your true form then what will be attracted towards you will be connected in the real way in you. But if you show off, people will join that appearance. Because of this, that relationship does not last long.” According to him, people who are balanced inside themselves, are confident and understand the depth of life, they naturally attract others.
Make love a process, not perform
Osho also believed that love should not be seen as an object to be ‘achieved’. When boys resort to external things such as clothes, cars, money or any other appearance to affect girls, they make the process of love a demonstration. Osho considers it a kind of psychological violence, in which his soul is lost in the race to influence another person.
Be what you are
If we understand the meaning of Osho’s words, then it becomes clear that “when you become something to get someone, which you are not really, it ends your relevance. And who really hides who you are really. Whatever attractions arise, it is superficial.
