After marriage, every woman cherishes many dreams, that her life will be happy, balanced and full of respect. But some people, whether they are family members or external, behave so that gradually swallows their happiness and self-esteem. The insult of the daughter -in -law on the day, only count her mistakes in front of people. Due to which the person’s self -esteem starts losing somewhere. So these are 5 types of people who come in the lives of married women like a lap and do not take the name of going. It is very important to identify such people and set boundaries in time, otherwise they can become a problem in future.
1. Compare people
Look, his daughter -in -law also goes to the office and also handles the housework.
These people compare everything and question your ability.
Due to this, women become victims of guilt, insecurity and stress.
Always remember for this that every human journey is different. Learn to reject comparison with respect.
2. ‘Relatives’ relatives in everything’
“Why is it so beautiful?”
These people interfere with every decision, clothes, career and personal space.
Answer softly but strongly, your life will be according to you, not according to their thoughts.
3. Control of in -laws or partners
“You should do this according to me”
Such people suppress the decisions, dreams and identity of women. Settings and boundaries. If necessary, seek the assistance of the counselor.
4. ‘People who talk behind back’ relatives or neighbors
“Hey, the second one was married in a good house, yet look…”
These people try to tarnish your image in front of others. Instead of focusing on these things, maintain your positive image and confidence.
5. Women who become ‘enemies of woman as woman’
Mother -in -law, sister -in -law or any other woman who deliberately hurts your self -esteem. Talk directly to them, or if necessary, make distance from them. Keeping things silent makes the situation worse.