Marriage is a bond in which people of two different thinking and nature promise to live together throughout their lives. But sometimes this relationship is limited to rituals or responsibilities only. Reason? Lack of correct dialogue and not to understand each other’s feelings. Especially the men class often ignore their wife’s words and gestures, which gradually causes distance and dissatisfaction in the relationship. If you want your married life to be happy and pleasant, then it is important that you learn to read and understand your wife’s ‘secret gestures’.
Why is it important to understand gestures?
Not every woman is able to openly describe her emotion in words. She wants her spouse to understand her words, feelings and mood without saying. This is the same unwritten dialogue, which increases intimacy between husband and wife. When the husband shows his behavior that he can also read the wife’s tubes and gestures, both respect and affection deepens in the mind of the wife.
Some special gestures, which means every husband should know
1. Getting silent while talking
When the wife suddenly becomes silent while talking on a subject, then understand that she wants to say something, but she is afraid that you should not consider it wrong. At such a time, it is very important to assure him and listen to him without interrupting.
2. Suddenly changing mood
If your wife was happy till some time ago and suddenly went off her mood, it could not be just exhaustion or PMS. It may be an indication that she expected something from you, which was not fulfilled.
3. Getting entangled without talking
Sometimes women fight on small issues, but the real trouble is something else. Maybe she is feeling your time, attention or lack of love.
4. Stay silent or speak less
If your wife is speaking much less than normal days or escaping from dialogue, it is a direct sign that she is upset with something. At such a time, sit near him and talk peacefully.
5. wanting to praise small things
Women like it that their husbands appreciate them, notice their efforts. When she dressed new clothes, cook something good or decorate the house, if she repeatedly asks “how it looks like?”, Then she is expecting your praise.
How to become a better spouse?
Be patient: Every feeling is not immediately answered in words. Listen to the wife’s words seriously and look at it.
Understand the language of the eyes: Sometimes the eyes say a lot. Anger, love, resentment – everyone is reflected without saying.
Support in responsibilities: Not only economic, participate in emotional and domestic responsibilities equally.
Surprise: Small surprise, compliments, time-all these dissolve sweetness in the relationship.