Love is a beautiful feeling that not only connects two people emotionally, but also makes them an important part of each other’s life. But it has often been seen that when a girl is in love, in the beginning she is quite excited about her partner, gives time, cares, but after some time suddenly makes a distance or starts ignoring her. In such a situation, this question is bound to arise in the minds of the boys – why this happens? There are many small but important mistakes behind this behavior, which the boys do not understand. These mistakes gradually create a rift in the relationship. Let’s know what habits or behavior of boys are that take any relationship towards sourness and forces girls to ignore.
1. Decreased emotional engagement
Boys are usually very emotionally connected at the beginning of the relationship. They pay attention to everything – the mood, choice, dislike etc. of the girl. But as time passes, many boys start taking this emotional connection lightly. They feel that once the relationship is formed, there is no need to try now. While girls always need to realize that they are special and they are understood. When this engagement disappears, she starts feeling alone and slowly distances herself.
2. Trying to control excessively
Every girl needs freedom – to think, speak, take decisions and live life according to her. But many times when boys become controlled while expressing their love, they do not even know themselves. From the girl’s dress to her friends and social media, questioning, doubting or checking all the time – these things reflect insecurity rather than love. This is the reason why the girl starts ignoring so that she can save herself.
3. Not listening to the girl or not taking it seriously
Dialogue plays the most important role in the relationship. But when the boy does not take his girlfriend’s words seriously, bite him or justifies himself every time, the girl slowly starts feeling ignorant. She feels that her thoughts have no importance, and that is why she silently distances away.
4. Lack of time and priority in relationship
It is not enough to say only ‘I love you’ in love affair. It is very important to give time and give priority to the relationship. A big mistake of boys is that they gradually become so busy with their career, friends or other works that they do not take time out for girlfriends. The girl feels that her importance has reduced. And when she feels the same again and again, she eventually pulls herself back.
5. Lie or hide things
Faith is a pillar on which the whole relationship rests. If the boy lies or hides something – whether it is an old friendship, an office case or activity on social media – it creates doubt in the girl’s mind. And when this suspicion occurs again and again, it slowly starts separating from the relationship.
6. Reduction of union and romance
Girls require appreciation and romance in their relationship. If a boy assumes that there is no need to say or do anything now because the ‘relationship is set’, this thinking becomes the biggest mistake. Do not praise, do not give surprise, do not say talk like a simple ‘you look very good’-these are small things that make a place in the hearts of girls. The absence of them brings coldness in the relationship.
