The faster the world is moving at the same speed, the faster the meaning of relationships. Finding love in this era of social media, dating apps and digital connections has become easier than before, but true love – which touches the soul, which is unconditionally lost – they seem to be losing somewhere. So the question is: Why people are not getting true love in modern times? The answer has not been given only by saying “Zamana has changed”. There are many deep social, emotional and psychological reasons behind this. Let’s know some major reasons in detail:
1. Fast changing priorities
Today’s youth keeps career, money and their freedom above relationships. This is not a wrong thinking, but when the relationship comes down in priority, the feeling of time and dedication for them decreases. True love thrives not only by emotions, but also by time and understanding.
2. Digital connection, but emotional disconnection
We are connected to people on WhatsApp, Instagram and Snapchat throughout the day, but are alone at emotional levels. The feelings hidden behind the screen are unable to bring the depth of real life. The real ‘feelings’ are lost in the world of ‘Seen’ and ‘Typing …’.
3. Furious of options, lack of durability
Dating apps have converted love to ‘swipe culture’. If not one or another, and otherwise the third – this thinking has eliminated stability in relationships. When humans know that he has many options, he does not try to stand in a relationship.
4. It is difficult to differentiate between real and fake emotions
Everyone looks perfect on social media – perfect couples, perfect life. But reality is something else. When we compare these ‘perfect’ relationships with our real life, we feel that our relationship is incomplete. True relationships also break in this confusion.
5. Fear from commitment and Fear of Missing Out (FOMO)
Today’s youth wants Freedom, and considers the commitment as a bond. ‘FOMO’ means that nothing is missed, due to this fear he does not impose all his feelings in the same person. This fear prevents love from feeling deeply.
6. Emotional immaturity
True love is not just by saying ‘I love you’, but it is from standing together in difficult times. In today’s time, lack of emotional maturity is a big reason that people break the relationship in a little difference.
7. Thinking of selfishness
Many times love is also considered a ‘deal’. “What are I getting from this relationship?” – This thinking has weakened the feeling of unconditional love. Does not take true love, teachs to give.
8. Creating a relationship in a hurry, break in a hurry
Nowadays people form a relationship without knowing each other properly. Then they breakup in small things. True love takes time, asks for patience and stays on the ground of understanding.
9. Bitter memories of past and trust Issues
Many people are cheated in earlier relationships, and this fear does not fully open new relationships. Trust deficiency shakes the foundation of a strong relationship.
10. The definition of love has changed
Earlier love was associated with renunciation, dedication and trust. Now love is being seen like ‘trend’, ‘status’ and ‘package deal’. In such a situation, looking for true love has become a long journey.
So is it impossible to meet true love now?
No. True love is still alive, but it is not easy to get it. This requires patience, understanding, and most – the ability to understand the most. When we understand our inner feelings with full honesty, only then we can be true to someone else.
