In today’s era, when the taunt of relationships is associated with social media, runaway and instability, true love seems like a dream. Many people seek a partner throughout his life who understands them completely, accept and love unconditionally. But the question arises that why does it seem so difficult to find true love? Is it an ideal imagination or is it really present in the world but it is becoming difficult to recognize it?
Complexity of emotions and walls of selfishness
Our feelings are complex and in today’s time everyone is struggling with some kind of insecurity, injury to previous relationships, or autism. True love thrives only when two people open in front of each other with honesty. But when feelings are hidden behind the walls of fear, rejection and deception, it becomes difficult to reach someone’s heart. This is the reason that many people consider engagement or attraction instead of love as love.
Imagination of ideal love and conflict of reality
From childhood, through films, stories and social media, we assimilate a version of love of love. We think that true love will shine like lightning in a particular moment, will be with eyes and everything will change like magic. But true love really rests on the foundation of time, understanding, struggle and harmony. When our expectations do not match that ideal, we get disappointed and believe that true love may not be found.
Global of volatility and options
In today’s digital age, lack of durability in relationships is also a big reason that people do not reach true love. Dating apps, Instagram relationships and lifestyle’s fast have given birth to ‘swipe culture’, which seems easy to find the next option rather than a relationship deeply. When the options are more, the feeling of surrender is less, and people do not stand in the true love that demands sacrifice and continuity.
Self-understanding and lack of self-love
Before getting true love, it is important that we know and accept ourselves. Many people are not satisfied with themselves, they are victims of lack of confidence or self-confidence. Till the person does not love himself, he cannot have a true relationship with anyone else. Therefore, before finding true love, it is necessary that the person recognizes the broken parts within and complete them.
Shadow of previous relationships
Many times our previous relationships leave such deep wounds that we are unable to completely dedicate ourselves in new relationships. Cheating, isolation or failed love stories create fear and mistrust within us. Because of this, even when true love is in front, we do not recognize it or retreat ourselves.
Facing fear and insecurity
Vulnerability means ‘being weak’ in true love. Showing your real face in front of someone, exposing your shortcomings, and relying that the person will accept us in the same way – it is not easy to do all this. Many people run away from true relationships from fear that they do not break again. Because of this, they also ignore the possibility of true love.
Confusion in love and attraction
Attraction is often considered love. People form a relationship to avoid external beauty, adventure or loneliness, but when the attraction fades over time, emotions also start to waver. True love is not just based on attraction, it arises from a deep emotional and spiritual connection, which requires time and understanding.
It is difficult to find true love, but not impossible. This is a journey that requires patience, self-analysis, and art of fulfilling relationships. It is not only the name of finding someone, but also the process of preparing themselves. When we are ready to love unconditionally and accept someone the same, then true love can definitely be found. A calm, dark and adamant love like Shiva is possible only when we resolve our inner complications and accept that true love is not a coincidence, but a beautiful practice.
