Sometimes an event that happens in the society becomes a role model for the people of the society. When we come across events that are a reflection of society, we feel happy. Especially when we see that our attitude towards women is changing. One such case has come to the fore. An IAS and an IFS officers were married in Narsinghpur district of Madhya Pradesh. Female IAS officer Tapasya Parihar is married to IFS officer Garvit Gangwar. Although the couple got married 6 months back. The special thing about this marriage is that the IAS officer set an example in marriage.
Let us tell you that in Hindu society there is a tradition of bride’s father donating the bride during marriage. Tapasya did not accept this practice and asked her father not to do Kanyadaan. Tapasya explained that I am not your daughter. Tapasya Parihar and Garvit Gangwar both met during training and started liking each other. Tapasya Parihar has secured 23rd rank in UPSC exam. The marriage took place in Jowa village of Narsinghpur district. The marriage was attended by relatives and acquaintances of both the parties.
Tapasya’s childhood was spent in a joint family with great passion. Pasya was against Kanyadaan since childhood. He believes that how a daughter can be a thing of charity. How can anyone donate to them without their will! When he told this to his family, he agreed not to donate. The family of her husband IFS Garvit Gangwar also agreed with her. Tapasya said that when two families get married together, then it is not right to be big or small or high and low. Why donate? When I got ready for marriage, I also kept the ceremony of Kanyadan away from marriage after discussing with the family members. Vishwas Parihar, the father of Osho devotee Tapasya, says that there should be no difference between a son and a daughter. Daughters cannot be deprived of their rights and property by donating. The family members said that the daughter has always been loved by the whole family. All family members are happy. Right now his happiness is our happiness. She deprives her of her rights by donating to the daughter. In the case of daughters, the word charity does not suit them.
Regarding this big decision, Tapasya said, “I do not like such tradition since childhood. Atrocities against women in the name of tradition has hurt me. My family has been very supportive in all this. I have supported my family and my family.” Convinced the in-laws. In this way, together we broke the old tradition of Kanyadaan.