New Delhi. Raising children is not an easy thing. Parents have to spend a lot of their energy and time. They have to give up many of their habits, things and likes. Still, somewhere there is a shortcoming. Some parents become too flexible and careless while raising children, which at times spoils the children. And some parents become overly strict. In such a situation, weaknesses like fear, lack of self-confidence in the mind of the children start to take home. Some parents get irritated while raising children, and they keep shouting at the children. By doing this, their image starts emerging as a villain in the minds of the children, as well as the children see their parents behaving like they do. That is, the habit of shouting in your anger and getting irritated a little bit starts to grow in children too. But by taking care of a few small things, you can become a calm and patient parent. So let’s know what are the things that need a lot of attention.
1. Due to the stress during parenting, many times parents lose their patience and they start looking emotionally weak. In such a situation, stop for a while, take care of yourself and then talk to the child.
2. Parents should develop the quality of sense of humour. In such homes, children happily invite their friends to their homes. Children who do this consider the parents as their friends and start sharing their words.
3. Be open minded and bring some flexibility in your nature. If you have divergent views on an issue with the child, find a peaceful way out.
4. Make children self reliant. Let him make his own decisions. This can reduce the differences between the child and the parents.
5. Let the children learn by their own efforts. Don’t try to control his life. Do not worry too much about the growth and development of the children. All the kids scream and get angry. Instead of scolding them on these things, try to understand their needs and help them.