New Delhi. Marriage takes place between two people and many times it seems that only after some meetings and talks you have come to know the person in front but it does not happen. In the true sense, a person is recognized by living together when his habits are gradually revealed. Sometimes those habits are accepted but sometimes these habits become the reason for breaking the relationship. A similar problem came with our reader, Sarita (name changed), who is unable to adjust with her husband after marriage and feels worthless every day.
I am upset with husband’s habits
Sarita says- I am 36 years old and I have been married for seven years. I got married through matrimonial site where we both liked each other but after few years of marriage everything changed. I don’t want to live with my own husband. I came to know about some of his habits after marriage, it was impossible to change them. I tried many times to adjust with the circumstances but to no avail. Today, both my emotional and physical attachment to my husband has ended. I am just carrying the relationship.
ignore some things
Experts say on this matter that first of all, what are you worried about, identify them and discuss with your husband one by one. Also try to know what your husband thinks. Do you know as you feel for your husband.. the same emptiness your husband feels for you too. Second, it is very important to have synergy for any relationship to work. So both you and your husband have to try this. Some things should be ignored in a relationship. If you hold on to everything, then it will be difficult to maintain the relationship. Try to spend some time with third husband. talk with them. This will bring back the sweetness in the relationship.