New Delhi. Arranged marriage is given importance in Indian culture. In arranged marriage, love starts only after marriage and there is a chance to get to know each other. Many a times nothing happens as we think fairytale marriage life. Similarly, sharing her marriage experience, our reader Kritika (name changed) brings to you a story related to her real life. He told how one note changed his world. So let’s know about the story of the reader.
Married to a man 10 years older
Kritika is a fan of Bollywood films and she feels that married life is just as happy as films, but after marriage her illusion was shattered. When she got married to a man who was 10 years older. Kritika wrote- I think everything will be like Karan Johar’s films but in reality it was nothing like that. My husband is a perfect husband who sees nothing but work and family. It’s not that he doesn’t take care of me. He took care of every little and big thing related to me but there was nothing like love and romance between us. Our sex life was also fine but love was not. My husband is so good that I didn’t want to lose him, so you never did Mann Ki Baat in front of him.
note changed my life
I spoke to my mother on this subject and her first question was what do you mean by love. At that time I could not understand anything, but when I lost and told this thing in front of my husband, he took patience. After a few days I got a note which my husband had kept for me. He wrote – I do not promise to change but I will try my best to be the way you want. I know I am not that romantic husband..but I will definitely do something to satisfy your feelings. Reading this note brought a smile to my face. Now I see his love for myself in every little thing.