New Delhi. In today’s time, the sooner the youth enter into a relationship, the sooner they back off. It is common to have problems in any relationship but ending the relationship is not the solution to the problem. Many times people stop talking instead of solving the problem and the problem gets worse. Our reader Payal (name changed) is going through a similar problem. She feels insecure in her relationship, so let’s know her story.
My boyfriend lost his job because of me
Payal says that she loves her boyfriend a lot but still feels insecure in the relationship. Payal says- I have been dating a boy for 4 years and am very serious about him but have been feeling insecure for some time. Actually my boyfriend lost his job because of me. He used to talk to a client in connection with work but that girl was trying to be too personal. She used to call unnecessarily. One day I called him and told him well, but the very next day my boyfriend was fired from his job. Now I do not understand what to do and how to calm this thing.
talk openly
Experts say on this matter that first of all talk to your boyfriend calmly about this matter. What are they thinking after leaving the job and what thoughts do they have for you. Is he not angry with your action or is he not thinking of not doing any job. Secondly, talk about this issue openly and both understand each other’s problems and try to find a solution. Not talking is not a solution.