We all know that children have very soft hearts. In such a situation, if something falls on this soft mind, then the children can never forget it. Children, especially, are quick to feel bad about parent’s words. In such a situation, your responsibility increases even more. There are some things that, as a parent, you should avoid telling children.
It’s not your job
Children have very high energy levels. In such a situation, sometimes they start working beyond their age. For example, lifting something heavy. In such a situation, you should explain to the children properly that they can grow up and do any work easily. Even if you jokingly say that ‘this work is not your thing’, then the child will start feeling himself inferior and will try to do that work forcibly to prove himself.
she is better than you
Comparing children gives children an inferiority complex and then they start getting irritated with the child to whom you are comparing them. In such a situation, you should never compare the child with others.
why don’t you die
Never say this thing while venting anger on children. By saying this, children feel that their parents do not love them. These things bother children a lot.
one day i will leave you
You say such things to scare children but from the point of view of children it means a lot. Children start getting scared of this and then they start getting scared that their parents will leave them.