New Delhi. A child is very important for any family. A child is very important to complete the family, but what if your partner refuses in the name of having children. A similar problem has been brought by one of our readers who have been wanting to plan a baby for a long time but their partner is not supporting in this decision. Our reader’s name is Salim Khan (name changed). So let us first know what our reader’s question is and what they want to know about it.
my wife does not want to have a child
Pathak Salim says that his marriage has completed three years and his age is within 30 years. Salim wants his family to be competitive. He also talks to his wife (Saira) about this but in the name of having a baby, she gets upset and makes some excuse or the other. Salim says that this is the right age to plan the first baby and they should not delay but Saira is not supporting them in this decision. We also have a lot of fights over this issue, but I do not understand why she does not want to have a child.
women’s right to have children
On this issue, experts say that planning a baby after three years of marriage is the right decision, but the decision to have a child should be taken only after consulting your wife. Unless they themselves agree to this, don’t force them. Because the woman has to give birth to the child, not you. Women need to prepare themselves mentally and physically before having a child. If this does not happen then its effect will be clearly visible on the child. Secondly, after the birth of a child, the whole life of a woman changes. The responsibility of a child increases on them, so that they have to raise them and take care of everything. In such a situation, it is not just about every woman to prepare herself. In such a situation, first give them some time… and try to know the reason why they are holding back.