The women and girls of the house are often considered to be the embodiment of Goddess Lakshmi. This means that they have the same qualities as the goddess herself—qualities that increase wealth, prosperity, and good fortune. As a result, women have been given a very respectable place in the Sanatan tradition. However, did you know that certain mistakes made by the women of the house—whether intentionally or unintentionally—can often displease Goddess Lakshmi, causing her to withdraw her divine presence from that home? Come, let us consider these things.
1. Personal matters related to home and family should always be kept confidential. They should never be shared with outsiders. In families where women violate this domestic privacy, lasting happiness or harmony is rarely seen.
2. According to traditional beliefs, one should not sweep the house after sunset. It is believed that sweeping a broom at this particular time may displease Goddess Lakshmi. As a result, that house may face serious financial troubles and difficulties.
3. During religious fasts and festivals, the spiritual purity and sanctity of the home should be strictly maintained; This purity should never be compromised. One should avoid consuming meat, alcohol or other *tamasic* (impure/stimulating) substances. Women in particular should be especially careful in following these principles. These rules should never be violated.
4. Disputes or fights between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are a common thing in many homes. It is said that Goddess Lakshmi does not like to reside in a house where the daughter-in-law does not treat her in-laws respectfully. Such houses are always surrounded by sorrow and poverty.
5. Money should be used with discretion and balance. Just as earning money is a difficult task, saving it is equally important. Therefore, it is considered wise to avoid unnecessary expenses and use financial resources wisely. Goddess Lakshmi never likes to reside in homes where money is wasted unnecessarily or without any purpose.