Infidelity in relationships, also known as ‘cheating’, is a common problem. However, when it comes to infidelity of women, the reasons behind it are often different from men. Relationship coach Komal has spoken in detail in his Instagram video. He says that the main reason for infidelity among women between 34 to 38 years of age is not just physical attraction or lust, but there may be some deep emotional reasons behind it.
Emotional neglect and loneliness
According to relationship coach Komal, lust is rarely due to cheating of women. Instead, reasons such as loneliness, emotional burnout and trying to get themselves are more effective are more effective. By this age, women often feel emotionally ‘invisible’ in their relationship. She is so lost in the role of mother, wife and home carer that her own identity, dreams and desires are left behind.
Empty intimacy and identity crisis
When emotional closeness is reduced in a relationship, physical intimacy also seems to be empty. Women seek love, understanding and a safe emotional bond with their partner. When they do not get this, then there is an emptiness in the relationship.
After the age of 30, the identity crisis in many women begins to increase. She starts asking themselves: ‘What is my identity out of this family?’, ‘Have I left all my wishes?’, And ‘Is love really the same?’ When these questions do not get answers, they start feeling lost.
When a new person appreciates them
When a woman feels emotionally unseen from her partner, a new person comes in her life, who notices her, appreciates her and makes her feel different. At such a time, they feel that they are now getting freedom from the relationship in which they were suffocated and they are able to breathe again. This outsider gives them the emotional support and attention that he expected from his partner.
The relationship coach has made it clear that the aim of this analysis is not to support infidelity, but to understand the emotional and psychological reasons behind it. This is a warning for all the couples who are ignoring emotional distances in their relationship.
Affairs with increasing age in women are often the result of their incomplete needs and loneliness that have been felt over the years, not only of lust. Therefore, emotional dialogue, respect for each other and mutual understanding are very important to keep any relationship strong.