In Indian society, great importance is given to *Kundli* (Horoscope*) before marriage. Many families even today believe that the position of the planets and stars play an important role in ensuring a successful married life. However, experts suggest that choosing a life partner based on horoscope alone is not enough. For a strong and happy relationship, it is equally important to have alignment in thinking, values, behavior and vision towards the future.
Author and digital creator Ankur Wariku recently discussed some important questions that should be asked before marriage. She believes that marriage is not just about love or attraction; Rather, it is based on mutual understanding, open communication, and a shared desire to grow together as a couple.
**What does a happy life mean to you?**
The most important step before marriage is to understand what a “happy life” means to you personally. Some people prioritize career and professional success, while others value family and a stable home life. If both spouses have very different expectations about life, this may lead to conflicts in the future. Therefore, it is important to talk openly and freely about our respective dreams and priorities.
**What are your thoughts about love?**
The perspective of both spouses about love also serves as the foundation of a relationship. A person’s upbringing, family environment, and past experiences often shape the way he or she views love. As a result, it is important to understand how your spouse understands and prioritizes respect, trust, and communication in a relationship.
**Clear communication about expectations**
There should also be clear and open communication about expectations related to the family. Getting clarity in advance on certain issues – such as what role the family will play after marriage, whether to live with or separate from parents, views on having children, and how much involvement the family will have in major decisions – can prevent many future conflicts.
