Society’s thinking regarding marriage and relationships is constantly changing, but some traditional expectations still remain a topic of discussion. Recently, the statement of Sai Krishna, a startup founder of Indian origin, went viral on social media, after which he had to face sharp criticism. He said that in today’s time it has become almost impossible to find a vegetarian, non-smoker and non-drinker woman for marriage. His statement has exposed the gap between modern dating culture and traditional thinking.
> met with the founder of a matchmaking app
>she asks for deal breakers
> vegetarian, non-drinker, non-smoker (of any kind)
> says almost impossible to findSeriously? Like seriously?
— Sai Krishna (@_skris) January 11, 2026
Sai Krishna shared a post on social media platform X (formerly Twitter) saying that he had met the founder of a matchmaking app. During the conversation, when he was asked about his ‘deal breakers’ i.e. what things he cannot compromise on in marriage, he clearly said that he wants a life partner who is a vegetarian, does not drink alcohol and does not smoke of any kind. To this the matchmaker reportedly replied that in today’s times it is very difficult to find a woman with all these qualities.
Sai Krishna was surprised by this answer and he raised the question whether the society had really changed to this extent. This question became the cause of debate on social media. Within no time thousands of people gave their reactions to this post.
Many users termed Sai Krishna’s statement as exaggerated and generalization. He said that such women still exist today, but they are found less on dating apps and more through traditional family or social channels. Some people advised that if one wants a partner with a traditional lifestyle, then relationships should also be found in traditional ways.
On the other hand, many people criticized this thinking and said that this statement makes unfair assumptions about the lifestyle of women. Critics said that today women are living as per their choice and it is not right to judge them on their eating habits or habits. Some users also said that in relationships, not just habits, but understanding, respect and emotional connection matter more.
This entire controversy has raised a big question—is it right to set strict standards for marriage in today’s era? Or is flexibility in thinking necessary with changing times? Experts believe that the definition of relationships is changing in modern society. People now put career, freedom and personal choices first, leaving traditional expectations behind.
Overall, Sai Krishna’s statement is no longer just one person’s opinion, but has become a symbol of the debate of modern dating culture versus traditional values. This discussion shows that the society is standing at a turning point where balancing between the old thinking and the new lifestyle has become the biggest challenge.
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