Love is a feeling, which a person considers to be the most special experience of his life. Everyone experiences true love at some point in life, you must have heard this in films. Different colors of love are shown in romantic films and novels. Love has been given a very high place in life, you must have seen love at first sight many times in films. Unrequited love is often shown in films, but does love often knock in someone’s life in real life too?
Someone says that love happens only once, but do you know how many times true love happens in life? A recent research conducted in America has revealed a lot about this. Let us find out how many times a person falls in love in his entire life.
Research was done on 10 thousand people
A new study conducted at the Kinsey Institute of America has tried to answer this question. In the study, 10 thousand 36 single people aged 18 to 99 were asked how many times they have fallen in love in their life? According to research, the average person experiences intense love approximately twice (2.05 times) in their entire life. This means that most people find true love only twice in their lives.
Such a percentage of people did not have passionate love
The study also revealed that 14 percent people had never felt such love. Thus, 28 percent of people fell in love only once, 30 percent fell in love twice, 17 percent fell in love three times, and 11 percent fell in love four or more times. According to Dr. Amanda Gesselman, the lead author of the study, people often talk about love, but this is the first time it has been revealed how often it happens in life. According to him, for most people, passionate love is an experience that happens only a few times.
What are the differences by age and gender?
The study also showed that there was not much difference between people of different ages and genders, with men and women having almost the same experiences. However, as people grew older, they began to experience love a little more, which means that love can happen at any age. Love has no age limit.
every form of love is important
Doctors and counselors benefit greatly from these results, as they can then better understand people’s love lives. This makes us realize that deep and passionate love does not happen often and not only passionate love but other forms of love like friendship, trust and understanding are equally important in relationships.
According to data from the Kinsey Institute and dating company Match, 60 percent of single people in America consider themselves extremely romantic. Many people also believe in ‘love at first sight’ and destiny. While it is very important to understand that love manifests in different ways at different stages of life.
When we recognize that true love only happens a few times in a lifetime, we can approach our relationships in a more balanced way, and that’s important because 51 percent of people say they feel more pressure to find love today than in previous generations. While 73 percent believe that movies, TV and social media create expectations about relationships that have nothing to do with real life. In such a situation, if you have not found true love yet, there is no need to be disappointed. The experience of love comes to everyone’s life at different times and in different ways.
